When it comes to dating, Venus in Aries people have to “accept who they are, and not conform to others’ views of how courting should play out,” according to Pelinku. “In other words,” she says, “if they like someone and wait for the other to make the first move, it will lead to delays and repressed anger for this Venus sign.”
The twins echo this point, noting that patience is not a virtue for those with Venus in Aries. “A lover who drags out the courtship process will likely get a taste of your extreme ghosting powers,” they explain, adding, “While your book of love may be filled with steamy and half-finished chapters, at least it won’t be boring.”
This is a placement that fairs best when they’re the ones to pursue and take initiative, because it boosts their confidence, Pelinku explains. “In their established relationships, they desire movement and results. If they have a list of goals to fulfill with their love partner, they will want to see it completed. If not, that’s where the anger stirs,” she adds.
And according to the twins, these fiery and passionate lovers won’t settle for less than an all-encompassing attraction. Love at first sight is a very real thing for these people—but the problem is that it can happen multiple times. “You’ve probably fallen head over heels in a nanosecond more than once. If the click is there, you’ll jump right in, [so] pacing yourself is an art form to learn,” they add.
In terms of compatibility, it’s always a good idea to check out a full astrological compatibility chart (aka synastry chart) to get the big picture, but Aries Venuses would likely do well with other fire Venuses (Leo, Sagittarius, or another Aries), as well as air sign Venuses (Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius).
Overall, if you’re dating someone with an Aries Venus, you’re in for an adventure that’s filled with spontaneous trips, passion-filled nights, and constant movement, Pelinku says. And if you’re the one with the Aries Venus, “Just try not to write people off so quickly that they don’t have a fair shake,” the twins suggest.